Monday, April 30, 2007

friends

my friends are beginning to "worry" about me, they haven't heard from me since i started seeing miss beautiful,they want to meet up with me and hear about this new "man" in my life. because apparently the only reason i would disappear from the face of the earth would be because i am getting laid.

HELP!

what am i supposed to tell them, "sweeties, i have been fucking a woman". i can just see the looks of horror on their faces plus that vain miss Latina would begin to think i want her! yuck!

anyway... whats a girl to do??? how do i tell my friends that my new lover is a female, or do i even bring it up?i guess i will blame it on work or lie....

these heifers aren't even wasting time they want to have lunch tomorrow or dinner whichever one is more convenient for me,they will even come to my part of town,see what girls would do for gist! waste gas money...... sigh

11 comments:

soul said...

lol!!!

erm 'scuse me Ms Nubian -Luminous.. but you are getting laid lol.

but seriously, you don't owe anybody any explanations.. besides this is still fresh for you..
Maybe you might need to savour this for awhile before you unleash the whole world + your girls into your business.

Savour this honey, really.. the beginnings are always 'the sweetest days' we know.

Things seem complex enough, if I were you, I think I would just hold my cards to my chest for now.
but then that's me, I like being able to fully immerse myself in whatever I'm feeling without the interruption of or from anybody...

IJEOMA said...

ahhh.. if you are not ashamed of what you are doing.. then whats the problem.. tell them.. its probably more gist than they bargained for.. but they are your friends.. abi? they should come around.. its should be about what makes you happy

Dith said...

y do u want 2 tell them again?

Dith said...

yea! soul said evrything i shld have said(lol)

Unknown said...

soul took the words out of my mouth... would like to know the outcome tho.

Idemili said...

Yeah, what Soul said [we are all lazy to say something original].

You can say it best by saying nothing at all [yeah, yeah. I know]. It's your prerogative [There I go again!].

Anonymous said...

Your friends love you... not who you're sleeping with... if you're not ready to tell em yet.. babygirl do you... and if you are... then go for it

Anonymous said...

Your friends love you... not who you're sleeping with... if you're not ready to tell em yet.. babygirl do you... and if you are... then go for it

Anonymous said...

GO WITH THE FLOW GIRL AND FOLLOW YOUR HEART. YOU WILL KNOW WHEN THE RIGHT TIME COMES TO REVEAL IT ALL. I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST.

luminousnubian said...

Soul-i know i don't owe anyone explanations but these girls are my family here in america,i feel horrible lying to them,but i guess what they don't know wont hurt them.

ijeoma-its not about feeling ashamed,i just know that realistically i am not prepared for judgment.

im a Babe-i didnt dont worry sweetie

mochafella- lol, i dont think i have the guts to tell them that!! i dont think me hiding her would lead to any speculations seeing as no one in my circle would even imagine that i am involved with a woman.and if it does lead to speculations then i guess the cat would be out of the bag.

chameleon and idemili- i swear soul is a psychic or something!! a pure mind reader!

Overwhelmed Naija babe- i know they love me,but in all honesty i think it has more to do with me not being ready to expose myself.

anonymous- thanks for the well wishes!

soul said...

nubian...
I wasn't suggesting you lie to your friends... just not divulge anything yet.. and tell them you are not saying anything yet.. because it's new and you want to see whats.. what...

u feel me?