"who is he?"(general question)
"someone we know?"
"what does he do?"
"where is he from?"
"is he older?"
"younger?"
"why do you look so fucking smug?"
"did you get a facial?you are glowing!"
"are you fucking him?"
"is the sex good?"
it was at that moment that i realized that as worldly and experienced the three of them are, they are not ready for that kind of bombshell (nor am i willing to share), regardless of how successful, beautiful and intelligent this person is.they will be shocked and disturbed.
i know they love me,but it wont be fair to do this to them,therefore i lied and cooked up a story for them about a new guy i just started seeing.
apparently i look happy and they were all laughing at me for hiding him,convinced "he" must be hideous. but yet they want to meet him, i told them when the time is right,don't want to jump ahead of myself (what i liar i am).
now i am in the predicament of following my lie.what have i put myself into?oh well.
(dinner was delicious non the less,i had a steak to curb any future cravings for meat)
17 comments:
hmm. Most babes actually fantasize about sleeping with a fellow babe but never build up the courage to do same. So I hail you o.
LOL at eating steak 2 curb any future craving 4 meat
ubong da- funny but that wasnt really on the top of my fantasy list though, being attracted to her was like a shocker for me. thanks for stopping by.
Im a babe- LOL! you are just a naughty girl!!! i meant that in all innocence (wink)
funny enough i just posted something on a similar topic,
Otherwise how is it going?
LN Dear...im sure u posted it in all innocence and my grandma is also a virgin(lol)
Nubian... seriously..
no more lies. It's okay to be ambiguous but no lies.
this is where some subjective personal pronouns.
it's always:
'they' or 'we'
Never she and I, just 'we'.
but before you get all tied up in that.... you know you can just tell your friends that you are not ready to talk about it yet.
luminous darling.. i am going to have to disagree with you on this one.. are you sure you didnt want to tell them.. because "it wont be fair to do this to them" or because you were chicken.. and you are still ashamed or unsure of your relationship with this woman. anyways. i dont blame you.. who knows what i might do under this circumstances
soul- i know i shouldn't have lied but i felt cornered. i feel like such a coward.:(
Ijeoma-honestly i didn't want to tell them because i was chicken.
thanks 4 coming thru
see later
OMG...let me introduce myself...then i'll continue to read. my advice as someone who has had to introduce a female lover to family AND friends..take it easy, don't do it till you are ready and have decided just what you want to say and how and then execute..you friends might surprise you.....
People would be shocked, be prepared to be castigated, hated , gossiped about.... It is not an easy road to walk on esp in our culture...
on the other hand, your friends might be understanding and tease you or ask what the difference is???
The real question is can you deal with them knowing about it???
LOL @ eating steak. Nne, it is not the same thing. One satisfies above and the other below.
The real question should be "Why would you want to suppress any cravings for meat? Have you decided that you want to go the other way? Fully?"
diary of a G-you are welcome.
bk-thanks for the advise, i dont plan on sharing that with my friends OR my family any time soon,its too early for that.
Ms zee- to answer your question. no i cant deal with them knowing about her. at least not for a very long time.
idemili-i know it is not the same o! was deceiving myself! lol
and i have not decided to go the other way fully! just enjoying the moments i spend with her.
hmm nah wa o.. i guess notin notin for str8 guys
FEMALES ARE THE BEST
LOL, I like this blog
I think I will come back and reply to this post
mightymike- you never know.....
sparkle- thanks for stopping by!
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